5 Reasons to Avoid Becoming Friends with Your Tenants

Being a landlord can be a daunting task. Between dealing with repairs, finding new tenants, and handling rent payments, it's easy for landlords to become overwhelmed. This is why some landlords choose to become friends with their tenants in order to make the process easier. While this may seem like a good idea, in theory, there are several reasons why landlords should avoid tenant friendships.

Top five reasons to avoid tenant friendships

Here are five reasons why you should avoid tenant friendships at all costs.

1. Legal risks

Tenant friendships can increase your liability risk. Many states have laws that specify how and when landlords can enter the rented property. Some legal reasons for entering rented properties can include:

• Emergencies such as a leak or a fire
• Making agreed repairs, improvements or alterations or improvements
• Supply the agreed services
• Exhibiting the rented property to purchasers or prospects, mortgagees, contractors, or workers.
• The tenant has surrendered or abandoned the premises.

A court order

In many states, landlords can enter only by giving a 24 to 48 hours notice to the tenants.

One of the consequences of tenant friendships is that you may not feel the need to give prior notice to your tenant before entering the rented property. It is also possible that due to the close friendship with the tenant, you may also forget to follow the legal procedure.

If your tenant feels you entered their rented unit without giving notice in a non-emergency, they can alert the state/local housing authority. In some cases, they can also file a trespassing lawsuit against the landlord.

2. Tenants can ask for favorable rent/lease terms

If you become too friendly with your tenants, they may feel emboldened to ask for increased rent or longer lease terms. Renters may also take advantage of the friendship by delaying the rent payment, intentionally or unintentionally.

After all, they may reason that if the landlord is too friendly with them, then they are entitled to special treatment or favors.

3. Landlords can feel awkward about asking for rent 

Landlords who develop tenant friendships may also feel awkward or hesitate to ask the tenant to pay the due rent on time. While you may not want to put pressure on your friends to pay the rent on time, you may still have to make your mortgage payments on time. 

Constantly dealing with late rent payments can be extremely frustrating, not to mention the financial drain you face.

It is important to remember that you always have the right to set your own rental rates/lease terms and make it clear that you need the rent on time.

This becomes easier if you remember that you and your tenants should maintain a professional relationship.

One way to prevent this problem is by optimizing resident communication. Landlords and tenants need to keep the communication lines open in order to avoid any misunderstandings.

Maintaining an updated lease, being clear about your expectations, and communicating with tenants if anything changes are some ways to avoid such misunderstandings. In addition, you can make it easy for residents to pay rent and submit work orders with a smart cloud-based resident portal.

This can ensure you send them reminders or notifications when rent is due, streamline work orders, and get repairs done on time.

4. Difficult to withhold the deposit

Tenant friendships can give rise to another problem for landlords - the difficulty of taking the necessary action. Most state laws allow landlords to deduct from the tenant's security deposit in these instances:

• The tenant or members of their household, guests, or pets have caused damage to the property (by being careless or accidentally)
• The tenant has not paid the rent, and there are late charges
• Unpaid utilities
• Unpaid pet fees
• The loss the landlord incurs due to early termination of the rental contract

Being friendly with the tenant can make it difficult for you to withhold the security deposit for any of these reasons. 

Landlords must keep the security deposit in a federally/state-regulated depository. They need to also inform the tenant about the account's location.

If you are withholding the security deposit because of property damage, you need to send a notice to the tenant within a month of identifying the damage. You must also specify the estimated value of the property that is damaged and the refund amount (the difference between the security deposit and the damage).

While these calculations may be simple if there is one tenant, they can become complex when you have rented out your multifamily townhouse.

This is where property management and accounting software comes in. You can streamline your accounts, rent payments, delinquent accounts, and day-to-day financial overview with a comprehensive accounting and reporting tool designed for property managers.

With a real-time, 360-degree view of your financial status, you can make informed and accurate decisions when it comes to calculating refunds or deductions from the security deposit.

5. Eviction can be difficult

Property violations, missed rent payments, and noise complaints from neighbors - are just a few instances where you might have to make a decision to evict the tenant. One of the major risks tenant friendships carry is the fact that you may find it difficult to evict them if they stop paying rent or begin to cause damage to your property.

Eviction is typically a complex process. The tenant facing eviction can retaliate by slapping the landlord with burglary or trespassing charges. Appropriate resident communication and due notice of eviction are some ways to minimize the complications associated with eviction.

However, you can avoid legal battles and unpleasantness by ensuring comprehensive tenant screening before renting out your property.

Here are some ways to conduct a thorough tenant screening:

Start with a credit check: To perform a credit check, you will need the Social Security number, name, and address of your prospective tenant. You will also need to ensure the tenant's authorization to conduct a credit check. Note that you cannot order the credit report from credit agencies (Equifax, Experian, or TransUnion). A tenant screening service can be of immense value at this stage.

Conduct background checks. A background check involves verifying the prospective tenant's rental history, employment history and previous eviction history if any.

Speak with the tenant's previous landlords: As part of the background screening, you can personally speak with the tenant's previous landlord. Speaking to their current landlord may not be a good idea as the current landlord may give a glowing recommendation to get rid of a troublesome tenant.

Speak to the supervisor: Instead of contacting the human resource department of the tenant's office, speak to the direct supervisor who interacts with the tenant on a day-to-day basis. If the supervisor confirms that the employee is reliable, honest and cooperative, you can expect the same traits when the employee becomes your tenant.

Interview the applicants. During a showing, apart from selling the rental unit, you can leverage the opportunity to interview the prospects. Try to find out why they are looking out for a new rental property and what their expectations are from the new unit.

Invest in a smart property management tool

Tenants can be a great source of friendship and support, but they can also be a huge headache. If you're not careful, you can end up with mental stress, financial stress, and even property damage.

ExactEstate's property management software is designed to help you safely and easily manage your tenants and your property.

To learn more about how property management software can help you avoid these problems, contact us for a free demo.